Romantic Surprise Ideas

Romantic Surprise Ideas

www.atozrelationship.blogspot.com cares about your relationship. I am happy to offer these tips on how to prepare a romantic surprise for your lover. We hope you like these ideas.


* Surprise them with breakfast in bed.

* Surprise her with dinner and dancing. (On dinner and a movie date night)

* Keep your relationship full of surprises.

* Surprise your lover with a deep shoulder massage while they are at the computer, doing tedious work.

* Surprise her by handing her the remote.

* Give him little surprises where he least expects it.

* Surprise them often with different comments. (Like telling them that you don't THINK you love them, but you KNOW you do...)

* If their favorite sports team is in town, surprise them with two tickets.

* On your first anniversary, surprise them with a limousine ride for the night. The two of you can cuddle in the back just like you did on your prom night and enjoy a night on the town.

* Fulfill one of their teenage fantasies: borrow or rent a convertible and surprise them with a moonlit ride.

* Surprise your partner by unexpectedly doing something for them that they dislike doing.

10 classic Romance Tips

1. Spread rose petals all over the bedroom

2. What could be more classic than a fine gold locket with your photo inside? (Maybe a photo of the two of you.)

3. Bring home one small, unexpected gift each week.

4. Write a classic, romantic, passionate, handwritten, heartfelt love letter. Most adults haven’t written a love letter since high school. (Why not? Have we lost our youthful idealism, or have we just gotten lazy?)

5. When traveling, give your partner a bouquet of roses; one rose for each day that you’ll be away. Attach a note that says something like this: “These three roses represent the three days I’ll be away from you. They also symbolize the love, joy, and laughter we share together.”

6. Say “I love you” at least one times a day.

7. Guys: Surprise her by performing one of her chores for her. (And not something easy like carrying the groceries in from the car, but something that requires some time and effort — like cooking all the meals over a weekend, or cleaning the entire house.)

8. Ladies: Send him a letter sealed with a kiss. (Use your reddest lipstick.)

9. Hold hands.

10. On your yearly romantic checklist, make plans for Valentine’s Day — well in advance!

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Getting your Ex-GirlFriend Back with Romance

If you and your girlfriend have broken up and all you can think is “How do I get my girlfriend back” then I have some tips for you that may well help you to get your ex back.

Women love romance, theres no doubt about it. So assuming that there is still a spark between you, it’s your job to build it up into a roaring fire.

Now this is important! Donot do any of these things if you and your ex girlfriend have had a bad break up and she has made it clear that she does not want you around. Doing any of these things in that case could make you look like a stalker.

These tips are only appropriate if you and your ex are still talking, still close, still friends.

Without further ado, here is part one of 10 Ways of Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back With Romance.


Name a Star For Her
There are several agencies that allow you to reach out to the Milky Way and name a star. You’ll be given a beautiful parchment certificate and a star chart with the location of the star now named for your ex girlfriend.

If possible present her with the certificate and star chart in person. If that isn’t practical mail them to her at home or work.

Send Her a Special Thank You Letter
Write a thank you letter listing all the things she’s done for you. Something like,

Thank you for being the best kisser that ever existed
Thank you for making me feel like the luckiest man alive
Thank you for helping me to get through the final exams, I couldn’t have done it without you
Thank you for helping me when I was sick with the flu
You get the idea. Now end the letter by saying something like, “How about giving me a chance to pay you back for all you’ve done for me”.

Make a Video For Your Ex
Sit down in front of a camera and make a video of yourself apologising for everything you might have done to cause the break up. Keep it light, smile, but be sincere. Post the video on YouTube and then send her an email with the URL.

Wow Her With a Balloon Bouquet Surprise
Have a bunch of helium balloons printed with a special message for your ex girlfriend. Something funny is best like, “It Makes Glen Smile”, then a happy face and then, “Just Thinking About Michelle”. Tie the balloon bouquet to a post or fence or on her car, somewhere your ex is sure to see it. This works best if you know a bit about your ex girlfriends schedule.

Send Your Ex Girlfriend a Top Ten List
Write out a funny top ten list of reasons that you and your ex should get back together. Keep it light. Make it read something like,

Top Ten Reasons Michelle Should Get Back Together With Glen:

Reason Ten
Glen’s friends will think he’s an idiot if he loses a girl as wonderful as Michelle.

Reason Nine,
When he’s with Michelle even Glen is good looking

Once you have your list text or email them to your ex girlfriend one per day.

Now remember, don’t do any of these things if there is a lot of anger surrounding the break up of you and your ex. You do not want to come off as a stalker.

Send Her a Message In a Bottle
Write a lovely romantic letter to your ex girlfriend on parchment paper. Roll it up like a scroll and tie it with a ribbon. Get a clear plastic bottle, slip your letter inside, tape her address on the bottle and mail it to her. Yup, the USPS will take it.

Get Extravagant With Flowers
Send your ex a really luscious bouquet. I’m not talking about a dozen roses here, that’s a real “been there done that” sort of thing anyway. I’m talking about a big, beautiful, bouquet, one that sets you back at least a hundred dollars.

Send it to her at her work if possible so all her friends will see it. If she works in a place where that isn’t practical, then send it to her at home at a time when you’re sure she’ll be there.

Don’t get all gushy with the card. Keep your message simple. Something like “Thinking of You” will do just fine.

Take Her Out For a Not So Casual Lunch
Ask your ex out for a casual lunch. Why not? You’re still friends right? Have a basket packed with an extravagant picnic lunch, complete with chilled wine and caviar, ready in the trunk of your car. Take her to the most beautiful and romantic spot available to you.

Sweep Her Off Her Feet and Into the Clouds
This one can be a bit difficult to arrange, but it’s a great way of getting your ex girlfriend back. Take her for a surprise hot air balloon ride.

Hot air balloons usually launch early in the morning so you will have to ask your ex girlfriend out for breakfast. Make sure there is a bottle of chilled champagne ready at the end of the flight. Very romantic if you can pull it off.

Write Her a Poem
Poetry is too romantic. Write her a long loving poem that talks about all her wonderful qualities. Can’t write poetry? Do a search for love poems, find one you like and write it again in your own words line by line. Make sure you are thinking of your ex girlfriend’s likes, dislikes and qualities while you write. Once you have the rhythm going it’s pretty easy to do.

Remember not to get over sentimental or mushy and absolutely do not beg. Be fun! Make her laugh. That’s the way to get your ex back.

And one last warning. These tips will only have a chance of working if you and your ex are still friends. If she is very angry with you, if she has made it clear that she doesn’t want to talk to you than don’t push it. I’m not saying the situation is hopeless, but being fun and romantic will not help you right now.

On the other hand, if you and your ex girlfriend are still friends. If you talk on the phone, text each other, confide in each other, if there is still a spark between you, than these 10 romantic ways of getting your ex girlfriend back may be just what you need to rebuild the fire between you

10 Ways To Get The Women You Want

Number 10
Conquer the fear of approaching women

The first thing you need to get under control is comfort when approaching women. You need to get to the point where you can walk up to a woman and start talking to her without turning into an emotional basket case. If you're freaked out on the inside, it's going to be pretty hard for you to act "normal" on the outside. And it's going to be even harder to try new things and use techniques that you're learning if you're uptight. The best thing you can do is go out and start conversations with about 50 women over the next week or two. If you're too nervous to converse, just give a compliment and walk away. Say "Hi, I just wanted to tell you that I think you're beautiful. Have a great day," and walk away.


Number 9
Once you’re in, don’t back down
Once you can keep your cool and compliment a woman, try keeping eye contact with the woman while you're saying it. After that, try pausing for three seconds before you say the word "beautiful" -- while keeping eye contact. If you can do this, you'll have women stop you and try to talk to you as you're walking away. When you can do this comfortably, try asking her a few casual questions to start a conversation. Ask her if she lives in the area or if she's visiting. Ask her what her name is -- simple stuff. At this point you'll be ready to use the three minute e-mail/phone number technique, and ask for her e-mail.

Number 8
Don’t show your cards too soon

Let’s say you’re in class -- it could be a university class or a yoga class at your local gym or whatever. Go sit next to the girl you’re interested in and do your best to ignore her for most of the class. Pretend she’s not even there. Don't look at her, talk to her, etc. If she says anything to you during the class or asks you a question, answer it in a disinterested voice and don't look at her. She’ll be wondering why you’re not looking over at her and this sets you up for what comes next.


Number 7
Tease her, then get her number
Then, as the class is coming to an end, turn to her and look her in the eyes and say, "So is it true what they say about redheads (or blondes, or brunettes)?" in a cool, calm way -- maybe with one eyebrow raised. She'll say "What do they say?" Then you answer, "Well if you don't know, I'm not going to tell you," and give her a sly smile, as if you know something that she doesn't. Then say, "What's your name?" After getting her name say, "I have to run after class; do you have an e-mail address? Maybe we can grab a Starbucks sometime." Then hand her your cell phone as if you fully expect her to enter her info.

Number 6
Remember how important “inner game” is
I get a lot of e-mail from guys who are athletes, bodybuilders, naturally handsome, etc. that all say the same thing -- if you don't have the right attitude, understanding and skills, then looks alone are almost useless. On the other hand, if you have the attitude, understanding and skills, then looks aren't that important. So, focus on deepening your integrity and your understanding of women, and do something every day to step out of your comfort zone. You’ll get the rock-solid “inner game” that women find irresistible.


Number 5
Do you want a “Total 10”?
A “Total 10” is a woman who’s beautiful inside and out -- she’s hot, intelligent, emotionally mature, and knows who she is. If this is the kind of women you want, you're probably not going to meet her at a bar, a club or a strip club. Go check out some self-improvement classes or the gym or a yoga class. Start asking the questions that women usually ask at first like, "Are your parents still married?" "How was your childhood?" "Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?" I know it sounds a little backward, but you should probably start asking these questions at the very beginning, when you first meet a girl. This will save you a lot of time in the long run. And remember, there are no perfectly healthy people running around on this rock called Earth.

Number 4
Decide if you want to play the field or not
One of the most important things you need to do is decide what you want for yourself. If you want to date different women, then do it. If you want to be exclusive, then do it. However, make sure you're making the decision based on what you want for your life. Second, if you want to date more than one woman at a time and the woman you're dating says she wants to be exclusive with you, then you need to accept that she might leave if you date other women. Deal with it. Too many guys cringe and say, "Oh, but I can't lose this girl. I'll do whatever she wants." This is a bad move of course. When you decide to put aside what you want for your life because you're trying to please someone else, trouble usually isn't far down the road.


Number 3
Learn to set up an “open” relationship
If you do decide that you want to date different women, you might say: "I think that it's a big mistake for two people to get into a relationship so fast. Most relationships that end badly end because the people got involved too quickly and because they didn't know each other at all. I like spending time with you, but I'm not interested in talking about having an exclusive relationship with you until I've known you longer." Be strong. It's worth it.


Number 2
Start off with a bang
If you start off the interaction with a woman in the right way, you'll form a "first impression" that will cause her to see anything you do from then on in the context of the attractive attitude with which you began. I personally think it's a good idea if you keep up the Cocky & Funny attitude, easing off as you start having more and more conversation. Don't stop entirely, because at some point you'll begin to lose the magnetic challenge that worked for you in the first place. This is another reminder that once a woman thinks of you in a particular way, she's likely to think of you in that way for a long time. And if you start out by acting like a Wussy, she's going to assume that you will always act like one before she turns to run.


Number 1
Take your game to the next level
The most important thing you can do to get the women you want is to continually improve yourself. Learn from every interaction you have. Ask yourself if you’re coming from a place of confidence or a place of insecurity. Are you having fun and enjoying your conversations with women or are you getting uptight and serious? Invest in yourself -- get coaching from guys who are great with women and your skills will improve almost on “autopilot.” If you don’t invest in yourself and “sharpen your saw,” your results will never improve. Don’t let that happen.

How To: Pick Up A Smart Girl

Smart girls are sexy. They're witty, insightful and they're always wearing those funky dark-rimmed glasses. OK, maybe we're generalizing a bit, but our point is that it’s worth your time to learn how to pick up a smart girl.

We're talking about the kind of girl who tells great stories and the kind of woman who gets all your jokes. She's a great conversationalist and she's genuinely interested in the world around her. If you're wondering about how to pick up a smart girl, you probably already recognize the benefits of being in a relationship with a woman who engages you intellectually. So the only question is: How do you attract intelligent women?

While the priorities of smart girls aren't necessarily all that different from those of any other girl, intelligent women can pose certain challenges in the pickup game. Initially, it may seem as if the two of you don't have much in common. Your interests and hobbies might even be vastly different. Those obstacles, however, can be easily overcome. All smart girls need to know is that you can engage them on an intellectual level. It's all about your conversation skills. If you want to know how to pick up a smart girl, read on.

1- Don't fake it
Remember that scene in Good Will Hunting when Ben Affleck tries to pick up Minnie Driver at that Harvard bar? Remember how he tries to look all smart and sophisticated, but instead he just ends up looking like a douche? Yeah. Don't be that guy. When you're trying to pick up a smart girl, it's imperative that you don't, under any circumstances, pretend to know something that you don't. First, she'll probably see right through your sorry act. Second, trying to prove that you're her intellectual equal (or superior) will only make you look insecure.

If you really want to know how to pick up a smart girl, you’d be wise to remember that it's always better to seem inquisitive than authoritative. Trying to sound smart will only make you sound dumb or worse: pretentious.

2- Don't defer to her intelligence
OK, so you don't want to act like a know-it-all, but don't get caught playing dumb either. Obviously, if a woman has wit, intelligence and great conversation skills she's going to get your attention.

Understandably, you're going to be attracted to her. Just don't fawn over her. Even if you're legitimately in awe of her intelligence, don't let on. Giving her compliments like "Wow, you're so smart" or "I never would have thought of that" may seem harmless, but they don't necessarily reflect positively on you. Consider this: If you're constantly telling a woman how smart she is, she'll probably start to suspect you don't spend much time in the company of intelligent people. Not a turn on. Remember this point when you’re navigating how to pick up a smart girl.

3- Be curious
Smart women respect intellectual curiosity. So show her you're interested in learning new things. Tell her about the enriching experiences you've had or hope to have. And if you don’t have many of those experiences, talk to her about how you've always wanted to travel to Delhi, India or learn how to wakeboard. When talking to an intelligent woman (or any woman) your conversation has to go beyond those initial "What do you do?" kinds of questions? Take it to the next level. Ask her what it was that made her want to be a lawyer or a teacher or a librarian. When she tells you where she's from, ask her what it was like to grow up there. Ask great questions, and you'll stand out from the crowd. You'll come off as thoughtful and she'll definitely be intrigued.

And once you've figured out how to pick up a smart girl, maintain her interest by planning dates that will engage your intellect.

Taking her somewhere like an art gallery or a museum are obvious options, but there are lots of others. Intellectually curious people thrive on new experiences; take her off the beaten path to a farmer's market or out for some foreign food.

4- Be honest about what you know
When you meet a really intelligent woman, you might find it difficult to carry a conversation if the two of you don't share many common interests. Maybe the two of you haven't read the same books or seen the same films. This is one of the many challenges associated with trying to pick up a smart girl, but just because you haven't had the same experiences doesn't mean she's out of your league. Everyone is an expert on something. So what if she speaks six languages? Maybe you're a gifted carpenter or maybe you love coaching basketball. You might not be able to relate to her specific passions, but you do understand what it's like to be passionate about something. Connect with her along those lines. Show her what you know and share your passions with her. That's how to pick up a smart girl.

source: http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_200/242b_dating_advice.html

Prepare to dazzle her.

any guy can do it

I know many men, who have a flair for romantic ideas, sweet gestures, and spontaneity at the drop of a hat, so it's not impossible to become a "romantic dude," so to speak. Even the most masculine of "macho" men has the ability to plan a romantic dinner, bring home flowers for no reason or simply find the time in a hectic day to express admiration for his woman.

The following are some simple romantic ideas that will help you impress your lady without having to go too far out of your way to do so. Prepare to dazzle her.

Make a list
Make a list of the special days on the calendar that you celebrate together, such as the day you met, your yearly anniversary, or even the anniversary of your first kiss. On these days make a point to spend some quality time together. Cook a special meal (or pick one up on the way home from work). Buy her a card or write her a short letter, and let her know that you didn't forget.

Toast to her
Toast each other when you sit down to dinner. It doesn't need to be over bubbly or wine, but even a glass of water or iced tea. Tell her something you love about her and then drink to it!

Reach out and touch her
Use the power of touch to make a lasting impression throughout the day. There is no such thing as not having time for a kiss goodbye in the morning or again upon reuniting at the end of the day. And an inviting warm hug or backrub at the end of a stressful day is always appreciated.

Create a photo album
Take pictures often; don't save the camera for holidays and special occasions. Create a visual scrapbook of your everyday life together. Better still, set the timer and pose together. You will both appreciate the warmth of the moment when you see these snapshots in an album down the road.

Take note of significant things
Set something aside for her every day. It might be a newspaper article you read during your commute, a link to a website you came across, or even a story you heard by the office water cooler. She will appreciate that you took a moment to think of her during the course of your day.

Be thoughtful
Do something thoughtful for her every day. Whether it's making her a cup of coffee in the morning, sticking a surprise note in her bag, or leaving her a chocolate "kiss" on her pillow before bedtime, everyone loves a romantic surprise.

Keep up your appearance
Let her see you at your best. It's ironic that we dress up to meet total strangers but let ourselves go around our nearest and dearest. Most women love to see their men clean-shaven, in great clothes and perhaps wearing a hint of her favorite cologne.

Tell her about your moods
Be honest if you are feeling stressed or under the weather. Your woman will appreciate your honesty and will know not to take it personally when you come home in a bad mood.

Discuss your day
Sit down together when you get home and relate your daily experiences. The best thing about spending time apart is that it makes you appreciate each other more.

These simple yet effective romantic ideas should work wonders on any woman.

Romantic surprise Idea

Romantic Surprise Ideas

www.atozrelationship.blogspot.com cares about your relationship. I am happy to offer these tips on how to prepare a romantic surprise for your lover. We hope you like these ideas.


* Surprise them with breakfast in bed.

* Surprise her with dinner and dancing. (On dinner and a movie date night)

* Keep your relationship full of surprises.

* Surprise your lover with a deep shoulder massage while they are at the computer, doing tedious work.

* Surprise her by handing her the remote.

* Give him little surprises where he least expects it.

* Surprise them often with different comments. (Like telling them that you don't THINK you love them, but you KNOW you do...)

* If their favorite sports team is in town, surprise them with two tickets.

* On your first anniversary, surprise them with a limousine ride for the night. The two of you can cuddle in the back just like you did on your prom night and enjoy a night on the town.

* Fulfill one of their teenage fantasies: borrow or rent a convertible and surprise them with a moonlit ride.

* Surprise your partner by unexpectedly doing something for them that they dislike doing.

How to Flirt

How to Flirt
By Hassan Mahmud Tanvir


Are you a flirt? If you are you know it and are secretly proud of the fact. It is sexy when you flirt and people like it. Flirting means giving people attention, it means, smiling, touching, whispering. In the right circumstances it is a powerful tool especially against the unwary. In the wrong circumstances it will get you fired. There is a gulf between flirting and unwanted sexual advances so beware.

It is useful to look at some of the key indicators of flirting and they can prove extremely useful when working out if the person across the table from you is interested. The one to keep your eye on the most is "mirroring". Mirroring is when someone copies your body movements whilst retaining eye contact. Its is one of the biggest giveaways there is.


Eye Contact

Pupils are dilated and eye contact is maintained
Eye contact combined with an arched eye brow
Any form of winking
Rapid eye movement and blinking
Eye contact where the gaze is held longer than usual. Men normally look away.
Hair and Mouth

Playing with hair in a stroking or toying motion
Eye contact whilst playing with hair
Touching your hair at any time
Lots of smiling, open mouthed and teeth flashing
Lip licking
Puckering lips in a simulated kiss form
Any form of touch of the lips or teeth with tongue

Body Movement

The thrusting of chest or breasts outwards whilst holding your gaze
The copying of your posture - mirroring
Holding your gaze whilst moving to music
Using a posture with legs crossed towards you
Leaning in towards you whilst holding your gaze
Open legged posture facing you
The display of flesh of arm or thigh
Touching

They will want to touch you and will reach out to do so with some excuse
They will offer to place food in your mouth as if feeding you
They will play with their hands and then with yours

The Way they Speak

Their tone and speed of conversation mirrors your own
Lots of laughter and questioning tones
In a group, you are singled out by this person for attention even in general conversation and questions. This happened to me in New York and I was taken aback how obvious it was.
The main thing to remember with flirting is that it is fun and so much more so when you are receptive to it and understand when it is happening to you. The best flirtatious moments will always take you by surprise.

How to Easily Get Hot Women to Fall For You

Guys, you can easily get hot women to fall for you if you understand how attraction works. This is the one key that you need to master if you want step your game up. I have a feeling that you're making it much more difficult than it needs to be. And I'm here to tell you that it doesn't have to be. You can have as many women as the master pick-up artists do if you just follow what they teach you.

I just can't let you do it anymore and that is why I want to share this info with you. It took me a long time to understand just what it takes to trigger attraction in women. I'm giving you this information so you can cut to the chase. I don't want you to make the same mistakes I did. I want you to start being successful with picking up women right now. So here are a couple of tips that can help.

The first thing you need to understand is that you have to have self-confidence if you're going to be attractive to women. There is a biological reason that women are attracted to the alpha male. It happens in every species. And you need to take advantage of that. You need to have the confidence that alpha males have built into them naturally. And if you have that confidence it doesn't matter what you look like. Fortunately, women can look past all of that.

The other thing I want you to do is to stop spending money on taking women out to dinner. Dinner should be a reward. Don't go spending money trying to impress women. It just doesn't work. You'd be much better off taking that money and investing in yourself instead. Invest in understanding how the pickup artists attract women.


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How to Talk to Any Woman You Encounter on the Street

One of the most challenging things for men in the dating scene is approaching women on the street. Like any learned skill the more you practice approaching women the better you will get. So the easy solution in learning how to talk to women on the street is to simply approach more of them.

But this is not as easy as it sounds. Sometimes you might be walking in one direction and she is walking opposite and toward you. It can be very awkward because she's going one way and you're going the other way so it's not very natural to just walk up and say something. Or is it?

The reality is that you can approach anyone, anywhere, and virtually at any time. The biggest obstacle to talking to women on the street is between your left ear and your right ear. If someone ever told me that they could never approach a woman on the street I would simply ask them "who taught you to think that way?"

Okay, let's get to the nitty-gritty. It is very important when you approach a woman on the street that you approach from an angle so she can see you. If you come from her blind spot then make sure you say "excuse me" or "pardon me".

This way she will know that you're there and she won't turn around and smack you with her purse. Some dating coaches will advise you to pretend and ask for directions, but most women can sniff out phoniness better than a trained dog sniffing for illegal drugs. It's just not the best approach.

What's far more effective is approaching naturally and communicating that you both have a short period of time and that you may never see one another again. A great way to break the ice is to simply say "excuse me" and then say, "Gosh, you look like you're in a hurry to get somewhere." And she'll respond accordingly. You can also say something like, "Y'know, normally I'd walk up to a pretty woman like you and invite you for some great conversation and some drinks, but I'm running late for a meeting. Since we'll probably never see one another again, let me ask you, do you have e-mail?"

So what you can do from there to simply pick out a pen and paper or your cell phone and asked her what her e-mail address is. You might get a little resistance at first because she doesn't know you.

But you can her assure her that you will send her an e-mail with a funny story and if she doesn't like it then you to do not have to meet for drinks. Once she gives you her e-mail address it is for important that you do not wait too long to e-mail her otherwise she will forget who you are. So what you should do is either send her an e-mail later that night or the next day.

So what do you send her? Send her a funny story. You can go to any news website or entertainment website and find at least one or two interesting stories in the news. You can highlight it and then you can copy it, paste it, and then send it to her. Now imagine on one weekend if you spent the whole day just accumulating e-mail addresses. The chances of you getting a date out of those e-mails increases substantially. Most men are too afraid to do this because they lack the confidence and they only lack the confidence because they don't practice enough. So, what's stopping you from practicing right now?

Here are a few things that I've come up with:

1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same default thing: Dumb look, compliment.

2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say many many many times in the future: You can't BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. If she's most likely got a boring life like everyone else, and you do something that every one of the other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month did, then you're probably not going to attract any special attention.

3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of the game.

Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya?

So what are a few things you might do to:

1) Not be like the other 499 boring, predictable, "nice" loser guys she encountered.

2) Be interesting, attractive, attention-getting in a way that makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of spice for her life?

I thought you'd never ask...

And, as you may have already predicted, I have a few ideas of my own (but don't let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as you get a chance).

To start with, you'd probably want to get rid of the "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not helping.

Next, you could take a moment and think about how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might act... then choose that style.

My experience is that if you take an attitude of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the same place, now let's see if you have a personality to match your looks", then stir in a generous portion of Cocky and Funny, you're likely to do well.

Here's a variation of something I've used myself once or twice.

YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" [leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool and slow]

HER: "Sure"

[pause pause pause for suspense]

YOU: "Are you single?" [stone cold straight face]

HER: "Well, um..."

YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." [nodding, sly smile]

HER: [Laugher]

YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like you... if you're more than just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm on my way somewhere... do you have email?" [very cool, calm tone of voice]

HER: "Yes."

YOU: Great... [takes out pen]... write it down for me, and I'll have, uh [clears throat] HIM send you an email."

[Get email and wish the lady a good day.]

Now, let's talk about what just happened here.

First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly communicate that "I'm not worthy"?

HELL NO.

I said "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" in a very laid-back, almost too-relaxed and mysterious tone of voice.

Anyone will respond to that with a "yes".

Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her DIRECTLY if she was single.

LOL... I really love this one. It's so fun. Most guys will say "Uh, I'll bet you have a boyfriend, huh?" or "So do you have a man?" or some other lame thing.

The question "Are you single?" takes women off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive when she hesitated with an answer... in a cocky/funny way... magic.

Next I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-confusing little bit about "knowing someone" that might find her interesting. Now, she might think that it's really ME, but she won't know FOR SURE until she gets the email.

And even then you might play with her a bit... "So, what did you think of my friend? I think he might like you..." etc.

The point is, I can pretty much guarantee you that this particular sequence hasn't happened to her lately.

She's still trying to overcome her sheer awe about how many guys in a row can ask "Don't I know you from somewhere?"

This kind of fun approach will be a welcome breath of fresh air.
Now, I want you to do something. Go back and READ IT AGAIN... VERY CAREFULLY. Imagine it happening exactly like it's written. Try to imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it until you can clearly see it happening in your mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is because I've done it so many times in real life!)

What Are We Going To Do On Our Date?

What Are We Going To Do On Our Date?

Let's say you are ready to ask a person you would really like to go out with on a date. You will immediately have the question, "What are we going to do on our date?"

The activity you pick for the date plays a big part in the date itself. A fun activity that feels comfortable to both people can make for a great date. The activity also determines how much talking you will have to do. If you choose a movie you won't have to say anything once the movie starts. If you go out to dinner you will have to carry a conversation all night long. That can be hard sometimes, especially on the first date.

Every one knows about “The Three Dates”. These are the safe dates that will cause no waves. They aren't very creative, but they are universally accepted:

A movie - Inviting someone to a movie is definitely safe. It is probably the #1 first date. You can go to a first-run film or a bargain movie. One good way to make it a little interesting is to let your date choose the film, or put a bunch of movie names in a hat and pick one at random when you get together.

A nice dinner - Another classic. As mentioned above, dinner out means that you are going to have to think of something to talk about for an hour or two. Sometimes that can be hard, especially on the first date. One way to lessen that problem is to go on a double date. And you can think about a candle light dinner-if you care enough.

A dance or a game - High schools are always having dances and football games, so you can invite your date to one of these.


Other Classic Dates

There are several other "classic" dates that you might consider. Most of these are more fun if you invite two or three other couples to go along with you:

Bowling

Miniature golf

Roller skating

Ice skating

Amusement parks

Concerts

Getting ice cream together

Hiking and nature walks - Local city, state or national parks almost always have hiking and nature trails. Throw some drinks or a lunch in a backpack and have fun.

Bike riding - Find a bike path or trail in your area and go for a ride.

Roller blading - Rent a pair of roller blades if you don't own them and spend the day together at it. If you have never bladed before, make sure the first date includes some kind of lesson or instruction.

Tennis

Horse back riding

Skiing

Water skiing

Exercising regularly - If you are both trying to exercise regularly, try getting together a couple of times a week for walking, riding, jogging, etc.


Educational Dates

The Zoo - If your city has a zoo, it can be a fun place to go.

Museums - Most cities and towns have museums: art museums, history museums, nature museums, etc. If you and your date like this sort of thing, a museum can be a great place to go on a date.

Public gardens - If you like flowers and trees, a botanical garden or an arboretum can be a great place to visit, especially in the spring.

Other Ideas


"Nontraditional" or "casual" dates can take some of the pressure off of going out. A casual date won't necessarily feel like a "real date", so it is more relaxed. If you ask someone to go shopping with you it might be a lot more comfortable. If someone is unsure how they feel about you, then a casual date (especially if it occurs during the day rather than at night) is easier to accept. There will be a lot less tension.

Shopping together - Let's say you are looking for a gift for someone like your mother, friend, or father. Take your date along with you to the mall and look for the gift together.

Picnic - Plan a picnic at a local park. Invite some friends along if you want a little less intimacy and get to know the person better with other people around.

Star gazing - Get a book on constellations (or invite a friend with a telescope) and watch the stars. This can be especially fun during a meteor shower. Can you tell I’m a “Star Gazer”? It can get very romantic lying down looking up at the sky... or it doesn't have to be, it’s up to you.

Walk on the beach - If you live near the ocean or a large lake, taking a walk on the beach or the shoreline at sunset or in the moonlight can be very romantic. It can also be a lot more contemplative and peaceful.

Visit a park - You can swing together or ride down the slide. If you go in the evening it will be less crowded. Parks are not just for kids.

Special events - Look up special events in the paper. The Saturday or Sunday paper in your area will have a list of special events for the weekend. You can find some really interesting things to try that way.

Flea market - Explore a local flea market one Saturday or Sunday.

Dating ideas

get your picture taken
go bike riding
go bird watching
go for a drive
go for a stroll at the zoo
go hiking
go to a concert
go to a dance
go window shopping
have a cookout
have a picnic
have dinner together
hold hands
play a board game
prepare a meal together
ride the subway around town
take a walk along the beach
throw a party
visit a museum
watch a movie
watch the sunset

Dating: Make it memorable

Just to be sure it's memorable -
Record your date
Especially if it's a walk in the park or your date's first time bowling.
For example: take a one-time use camera and use it up - then plan to get together next week to look at the photos.

Leave the person you're dating with a memento or special reminder of your unique date (they'll think of you every time they see it) or email photos later...

Art-fest
Get together huge sheets of paper and pens, or charcoal, or crayons or watercolors.
Take your date to an art museum or art gallery or art festival.
After, return home (or go to a park with a picnic table or other location) and create your own artwork.

Lickey Sticky Date
Go for a simple walk in the outdoors or along the beach. Build a fire and roast and share sticky, gooey, messy, s'mores.
Lick your fingers or whatever else it takes to get cleaned up...

Floras Notta Bora
A botanical garden, arboretum or a community garden can be a great place to visit, especially in the spring. Take a camera, snap pictures of each other frolicking through the foliage.

The next day - a Beautiful Bouquet

Drama Whamma
Try out local, small theaters, not just movies every time. Sometimes the plays are excellent and some are just plain entertaining.

Whip Up a Banana Split
Chocolate syrup, bananas, strawberry syrup, ice cream - build a banana split and apply whipping cream as appropriate?

The Big Laugh
Find your local comedy club and laugh yourselves silly.



Factory Functions
Factories and manufacturers offer interesting factory tours.
Type into your search engine: "Factory tour" "Your town name" and find your local tours.

Back to Nature
Drive to the country, or a park and hunt for 4-leaf clover?

The next day send a Field of Daisies

Historical Histrionics
Check out your local museums - there are history museums or nature museums or aeronautical or sports museums tucked away in an area near you.
For a History museum date
You can pick one era upon which to concentrate while you're at the museum. Then find a video or movie set in the same time-frame to watch after your museum tour.
Civil War - "Gone with the Wind"
First World War - "For Whom the Bell Tolls"

Sail Away
Take sailing lessons together.

Groovie Movie
Can't decide - tape a newspaper on a wall (or somewhere that you don't mind holes in the wall - like the inside of a garage door).
Open the newspaper to the movie/entertainment page and ask your date to throw one or more darts to select the movie? Bingo. Or limit the number of choices by taping up a limited number of movies and toss away.

The Fat Lady Sings
Try an opera - sit in the nosebleed section if need be (for the economy-minded) and take binoculars? (If you don't think this is hot, watch the movie "Moon Struck.")

Jazz It Up
Find local jazz - check out coffee houses or jazz festivals.

History Buff
Check out local historical sites Often there are walking tours of historical areas in your town?often self-guided.

Game-Playing
Hit the arcade get an ice cream cone, then go bowling?

Artiste Unleashed
Go to an Art Museum - afterward use ideas from the art-fest date - OR buy clay or other materials for creating your own sculptures - or paper mache or paper, fabric, photos for collage.

Radical Reels
As an alternative to regular movies - animation festivals, documentary presentations, foreign and limited-run films can be a blast. Do a little research and check your newspaper's entertainment section. Even museums sometimes run specialty films.

Extra points for Guys
Guys:
Give her flowers (and bring a special one for her mother) ++++
OR send her a bouquet that reminds her of your date...

Seduce a women with FOOD

The loyal reader may think he’s got what it takes to push a woman over the edge into maniacal ecstasy, but this mysterious subject varies widely from woman to woman. AM doesn’t shy away from the difficult questions and scenarios, as our guides will have you pushing all the right buttons at all the right times. Where and when do women respond to “the move?” How do you proceed once you’ve begun? Is there a legitimate “G-spot?” We get spicy with “Talk Dirty to Me,” taboo with “Taking Another Man’s Woman,” and uber-helpful with “11 Tips to Satisfy Any Woman Sexually.”

To really impress your date, don’t make a reservation, make a meal. Women melt when men cook for them. They think it’s sweet and sensitive… and sexy. But what if you don’t fancy yourself a chef? No sweat. Even if you don’t know the difference between basting and blanching, there are plenty of no-sweat dishes that will fool her into thinking you know your way around the kitchen. And a man who knows his way around the kitchen obviously knows his way around the bedroom.

Try any of these four seduction meals and watch her swoon over the meal, and you.

Baked brie drizzled with honey and topped with
candied pecans
There is nothing complicated about this three-ingredient recipe, but what it lacks in difficulty, it more than makes up for in taste. It’s ooey, gooey good and impressive to look at. And best of all, you can cook it in your microwave.

Ingredients

1 small wedge of brie (approximately 4 oz)
A drizzle of honey
A handful of candied pecans

Directions: Remove cheese rind with either a knife or a piece of dental floss -- just hold the floss between your fingers the same way you would if you were flossing your teeth and slowly work your way around the cheese. Place the cheese in a medium-sized, microwave-safe dish. Cook the cheese on high for one to two minutes, until the brie is melted, but not bubbling -- so keep an eye on it. Remove the brie from the microwave and drizzle with honey, then sprinkle with candied pecans.

Serve warm with sliced baguette, apple wedges and seedless grapes.

Bonus tip: Rather than smashing your bread into the brie, swipe it on with a cheese knife. Don’t have a proper cheese knife? A small spoon will do.

Wine pairing: Cabernet Sauvignon, Zinfandel

Chicken parmesan
This Italian favorite may require a bit more prep time, but the finished product is well worth it. And best of all, it’s practically fool-proof.

Ingredients

2 boneless chicken breasts
1 egg
1/3 cup milk
1 container Italian seasoned bread crumbs
1 tbsp olive oil
1 cup spaghetti sauce
4 slices mozzarella cheese
Parmesan cheese to taste

Directions: Preheat your oven to 350F. After cutting off any excess fat, cut the chicken in half, horizontally. Place the meat between two pieces of plastic wrap and gently pound with a flat mallet until it is a quarter to half an inch thick. In a medium-sized bowl, whisk together the egg and milk. Spread the bread crumbs on a large flat plate. First, dip the chicken into the egg mixture until it is completely coated (let the excess drip off), then coat the cutlets in bread crumbs -- push one side down firmly, flip over and do the same thing on the other side.

Once all four chicken breasts are coated, heat the olive oil in a non-stick frying pan over medium heat and brown the chicken on both sides (about two minutes per side). Next, place the chicken in a medium-sized baking dish and top with spaghetti sauce and mozzarella cheese. Cover the dish with a lid or tin foil. Bake for 15 minutes, remove the cover, and sprinkle with Parmesan. Finally, bake the chicken, uncovered, for and additional three to five minutes, or until the cheese bubbles. Serve with garlic bread and Caesar salad.

Bonus Tip: If you don’t have a mallet, the flat bottom of an empty wine bottle works just as well to flatten chicken.

Wine Pairing: Pinot Noir, Merlot, Zinfandel

These four seduction meals are sure to make her melt...

Strawberry spinach salad with almonds and chevre
Women are suckers for salads. They’re healthy and colorful -- two things that chicks love. And even better, salad can work as an appetizer or an entrée; just add some grilled chicken to make it a meal.

Ingredients

3 hefty handfuls of fresh, baby spinach, washed and dried
8-12 strawberries, washed and sliced
½ cup slivered almonds
4 oz package fresh chevre (goat cheese)
¼ cup balsamic vinaigrette dressing (Newman’s Own Balsamic Vinaigrette Dressing is a good choice here)
Directions: Put the spinach in a large bowl and top with the strawberries, almonds and crumbled chevre. Add the dressing and toss before serving. That's all!

Bonus tip: To make it seem like you made the dressing from scratch (major bonus points), dump a quarter cup of the dressing into a small dish (hide the bottle in the fridge) and toss the dressing into the salad in front of her. That way she also gets to see the cook in action.

Wine pairing: Chardonnay, Zinfandel

Chocolate fondue
Fondue is one of the few desserts that won’t make women feel guilty. All that fruit seems to cancel out the chocolate. Plus feeding each other can lead to other things.

Ingredients

1 package of semi-sweet chocolate chips
¼ cup whipping cream
1 tbsp Amaretto liqueur (optional)
Recommended fruits for dipping: strawberries, melon, grapes, bananas, kiwis, pears

Directions: Heat two to four cups of water over medium heat in a large pot. Set the fondue pot inside the larger pot of hot water. Then, add the chocolate chips to the fondue pot and stir until the chocolate is melted. Be very careful though, chocolate burns very easily so you'll need to keep a close eye on the pot. Next, stir in the cream and the liqueur until the chocolate is smooth. Reduce the heat until the mixture simmers, and leave until you are ready to serve.

Arrange the dipping items on a plate or platter -- you can even include pound cake chunks, brownie squares and marshmallows to the fruit mixture.

Bonus tip: To prevent apple wedges and banana chunks from turning brown, pre-mix the wedges with a teaspoon of lemon juice.

Wine pairing: Merlot, Port, Champagne

woo her with food
To truly woo a woman with food, you just have to make it. Yes, presentation is also very important -- make sure your cutlery is clean, your plates aren’t chipped and the food isn’t burnt. But it doesn’t have to be perfect. She’ll give you an "A" just for making the effort.

first date ideas-bronze,silver and gold

bronze first date ideas

1- The beach
If you're the type who likes to see what she's all about right away, then take her to the beach. This is the perfect way to enjoy the sun, show off your new swimsuit and see what she looks like in a bikini. And if all else fails, there is still enough eye candy to keep you busy.

2- Billiards
If you feel like you're the best thing to happen to billiards since the cue-stick after seeing Tom Cruise in The Color Of Money, why not invite her to play some pool with you? This is an interesting setup to secure a second date.

You can raise the stakes by saying, "Whoever loses the game must cook supper for the other." And just like that, you've got yourself a second round of love.

3- Mini golf
If you can't tell the difference between a wedge and an iron, maybe miniature golf is the way to go. A cheap and fairly easy "sport," it allows for some physical contact when you have to give her a crash course on how to hold the putter.

4- Concert
Although first dates should emphasize conversation in order to get to know each other, some loud music and screaming people might be an alternative. Let's say your favorite band comes to town for one night only, which is incidentally the same night you are supposed to go on your first date with the girl, then take her to the show and kill two birds with one stone.

5- Amusement park
Even if amusement parks are generally aimed at children, who says that grown adults can't engage in some childish fun? Take her for a spin on the Ferris wheel or win her a big ol' teddy bear, and she won't have a chance to get bored.

First date ideas get more elaborate with our silver and gold packages...

silver first date ideas

6- Picnic
Good first date ideas need not involve a second mortgage on your home. It can simply be a quiet get together that allows for stimulating conversation, such as a picnic, which is also a good venue for you to show off your sandwich-making skills and your sangria expertise.

7- Casino
Just imagine going to the casino with your woman and having her blow on your dice. It's a nice feeling to double-down at Black Jack and come out of there with a pocket full of cash. Beware: easy come, easy go. And we're not only talking about the money.

8- Go-karting
Why not test her driving skills? F1 karting is an exciting and fairly cheap way to test her road abilities and take her for a ride. You can pretend that you're Michael Schumacher and that the F1 babes are cheering you on!

9- Golf
Golf may be one of the most relaxing sports you could engage in with your date. You can show off your Tiger Woods-like expertise golf tips.

Remember that non-sweaty activities are the way to go because your woman won't want to feel sticky and gooey -- this might put a damper when you're going for par, if you know what we mean.

10- Psychic
Women love to know about the future, their karma and all that mumbo jumbo. Get her palm read and have her find out if somebody close to her is going to win the lottery or if a new love is coming into her life. If that's the case, then it will save you plenty of headaches, not to mention dollar bills, as to whether or not she actually likes you.

gold first date ideas

11- Limo ride
If you want to impress your date with a great night on the town, literally, then why not take her along for a ride? Just don't go overboard and try to appear like a high roller; if you do, you might find your date jumping out the sunroof.

12- Roof terrace
Bringing your date to the highest point in the city can be exhilarating for both of you. Some hotels, restaurants or buildings have roof-top terraces for people to enjoy -- especially at night.

13- Catered meal
Sometimes a simple house date with some gourmet-catered food and drinks is the way to go. Impress your woman with fine cuisine prepared by a chef. It might cost some extra money, but at least there's a chance that you won't have to drive her home!

14- Massage
Although this requires some planning, escaping the busy urban life and going to an out-of-town resort might be the best thing. Imagine getting a Swedish massage, enjoying the sauna, jumping in the Jacuzzi, all while looking over the beautiful scenery.

This date is a surefire success, but beware because a date like this one will be difficult to top.

15- Balloon ride
There is nothing like looking at people from a bird's-eye view, floating above the city with her hanging on to you because she is afraid of heights.


first impressions
Although the aforementioned first date ideas are simply a result of extensive research in the dating field, there are many more possibilities that we haven't mentioned.

How to Propose to a Woman

How to Propose to a Woman

Proposing can be one of the most unforgettable moments -- so why not make it a moment that she'll never forgot.

1. Think first. Is this a person that you really want to spend the rest of your life with? If so, read on.
2. Ask her parents for permission. This can be extraordinarily important to her and her family. Always think of her. However, she may not be the kind of woman who likes this old-fashioned traditionalist approach, so if she doesn't, don't do it. You should know her well enough by now. But if you live at asia,just dont think about this.Girls often dont tell their parents where they will be.: D
3. Think of her favorite things. For example, does she love roses, beaches, etc.? Have some on hand or choose a site where she will see her favorite things. For instance, where is a place that she loves most? Make reservations if needed.
4. Look for a ring. Ask her mom or best friend what her ring size is. If you don't know, get a temporary ring, and then get another after you propose.
5. Double-check everything. Make sure you have all the things you need for your plan to go smoothly.
6. Write down something short and sweet to say. For example, say "I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with you." Make sure you write it.
7. Don't practice. You may feel nervous, but you don't want it seem like it was rehearsed.
8. Set everything up and go to the place you've chosen.
9. When you're ready, get down on one knee and ask "Will you marry me?" Be prepared for her to start crying and/or squealing with delight and surprise. She is just excited!
10. If she says yes, end the proposal with a kiss or a hug. If she says no, do not react poorly. She may need time to think and a memory of your sour face and grumpy attitude will leave a bad impression in her mind. Be a gentleman.


Tips

* Talk to her about it. If you really think that you can be together for the next 50 years, you can talk about things like marriage. Make sure that she wants to marry you
* Originality is awesome, but don't go overboard.
* If possible, set up a video camera or ask someone to take pictures. These will be great to show to family members and friends.
* If you are really clueless, ask her best friend(s) or mother.
* Don't worry if she says no or I'll have too think about it - this is a big step.


Things You'll Need

* A ring
* Some money
* Help
* Courage
* Ideas
* (Most importantly) love
* More love

List of Top Ten Flirting Tips

List of Top Ten Flirting Tips
By Hassan Tanvir


10. Flirting is an attitude:
A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks.
Be enthusiastic and positive, it works!

9. Start a conversation:
The best opening line is saying hello.
Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.

8. Have fun:
Be playful, light-hearted and spontaneous.
Show your vulnerability.

7. Use props:
Never leave home without a prop.
Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others will be compelled to start talking to you.
Great props include: dogs, kids, unusual jewelry, a irresistable scent, a sweatshirt with your favorite passion or personalized Hoodie with your Rhinestone Initial or T-Shirt with your Rhinestone Initial ties, Guy's Personalized Sweatshirt hats, or an interesting book or newspaper.

6. Be the host:
Change your behavior from the role of guest to host.
You are not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.

5. Make the first move: Move closer to the person you want to meet.
Say hello!

4. Listen:
You have two ears and one mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak.
Listening is a true art. Your flirting partner will be drawn to you.
Everyone loves to be heard.

3. Eye contact:
Make eye contact, but please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away.
Don?t stare ? it?s a turn off.

2. Compliment:
Compliment your flirting partner. The best compliments have the element of surprise.
The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them.
Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine.
When you receive a compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!

1. Smile:
It is contagious.
It will make you so much more approachable.
A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a people magnet.

Stay home- Movie dating tips

Stay-at-home movie date ideas!!!



Email Treat
Suggest and plan your date for a week - communicate ONLY by email, then get together and watch " You've Got Mail."



Royal Treat
Treat them royally - then check out " The Princess Bride."
(Cary Elwes, Robin Wright Penn, Peter Falk)
OR " Roman Holiday."
(Audrey Hepburn, Gregory Peck).





Get a Que
Pool's Cool - Play a little pool, then cuddle up to watch " The Color of Money."




Hearts Afire
" Always" A daredevil firefighter pilot dies in a plane crash but returns to earth as an angel to help his former girlfriend.
(Richard Dreyfuss & Holly Hunter - 1989)



Dancin' Romancin'
Try a little dancin' then settle in to watch "Save the Last Dance" for the romancin' part.



Love & Games
Play some indoor games - light-weight foam bats and balls, basketballs and trash cans are always fun... Then snuggle up for "Jerry Maguire"
(Tom Cruise & Renee Zellweger - 1996)




Medieval Magic
Young lovers, separated from each other by an evil curse, attempt to break the spell and reunite in "Ladyhawke."
(Matthew Broderick & Michelle Pfeiffer - 1985)


Karate Kiss
Practice your Karate holds (or any kind of hold that works) then watch " Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon."
(Yun-Fat Chow, Michelle Yeoh - 2000)

Cyrano Says
Write love notes (or poems) for each other then watch " Roxanne."
(Steve Martin and Daryl Hanna)



Stay tuned
for more movie dates - added soon!!!

Kissing tips ( with pics)

Kissing Explained

A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...


And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.

Basic Kissing Tips

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.

If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.


And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.



Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.


Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.


Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.



Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.


French Kissing

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.


Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.

Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.



Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.


Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.

Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.

How to ask Someone for a Date

It seems simple enough, but it can be the most difficult part of a date.
So what do you do?

Biggest clue: THINK AHEAD

You don't want to be standing there going, "Um, ah." when the object of your affection says "Yes."
You can't just looked stunned and be too shocked to utter the next sentence.
You can't wait for that very moment to try to think of what on earth you can do on a date.
You need a more impressive beginning.


If you're at the start of a relationship or asking for a first date, take the pressure off by not using the "D" word.
Don't ask for a "Date" and don't call it a "Date."
If you're uncomfortable saying, "Would you like to go out with me."
Then don't say it.
Make it casual.
But (just a reminder)THINK AHEAD.
Make it specific.

First - two deadly questions NOT to ask:
Do not ask, "You want to go out?" it's too open-ended and can lead to awkward follow up conversation.
Do not ask, "What are you doing Friday night?"
It's too vague. It may leave your potential date wondering exactly what you have in mind.
The other person doesn't know if you're just curious about what she/he is doing on Friday night or if you want to do something with them...



Try something along the lines of:

"You like to rollerblade? I was thinking of going out to the lake on Saturday. It's great out there. Would you like to go with me?"


Or if you're really uncertain or uncomfortable about getting together - go with a group.
Ask the question:


"Hey, there're a bunch of us going bowling on Saturday. Would you like to go?"
The operative word here is "us." It immediately takes the pressure off.

Planning activities to do on your date and getting together in a group are good ways to go - especially if you think you or your date might get "tongue-tied."
If you're busy or there are a bunch of other people in the conversation, you won't hit awkward silences and won't have to talk all the time if you don't know your date very well.

In summary, just remember when you are asking someone out:
1) Plan ahead
Know what you are going to say AND what you want to suggest to do on the date.
2) Be specific
The other person will be much more comfortable if they know exactly what your intentions are and what you want to do.

AND try to relax and enjoy yourself - worst case - they'll say they can't go out and you'll find someone else who will. Someone who appreciates you.
In other words, if the person you are asking out doesn't have enough insight to recognize what a terrific person you are, then they're just not too bright now, are they?