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June 18, 2010

How to spice up your Relationship

Send a dozen roses: 11 red roses and 1 white one. The note: "In every bunch there's one who stands out - and you are that one." 

 
"The art of love ... is largely the art of persistence" Dr Albert Ellis 

Write him/her a check for one million kisses 

Something for the Honeymoon or anniversary.... a lottery ticket and a note: "I hit the jackpot when I married you." 

Book A Massage to give your partner a professional massage..

Kiss every square inch of her body S-L-O-W-L-Y ! 

Hide a love note in a bottle of vitamins. The note will say: "Try some vitamin L." 

Scatter rose petals all over the bed. 

Buy the music CD "Let's talk about love" by Celine Dion. 

Three simple sex rules: 

* gals are slow, guys are fast 

* guys are visual: Show him... 

* gals are auditory: Tell her... 

Write notes on Post-it notes and stick them around. 

Don't buy cheap lingerie unless you plan to rip it off her in passionate lovemaking. 

Hide a love note in his pants pocket.
 
Other places to hide a small note: 

* under the pillow
* in his shaving kit
* between the pages he/she is reading

Guys:
know her dress size, shoe and stocking size, blouse and nightgown size, bra and panty size, pants and coat size, and of course her finger size (for rings that fit). 

Gals: know his coat size, shoe and hat size, shirt and pants size, finger size (for bowling balls that fit)...
Give the gift of time (wristwatch) with this inscription: "I'll always have time for you."
NEVER, never, never say "I told you so".
 
Mail a lock of your hair to your lover.
 
Ask him to pick a number between 1 and 50, then reward him with that number of kisses.
 
Make a habit of taking a stroll after dinner every evening.
 
"Women fall in love through their ears, men fall in love through their eyes." Woodrow Wyatt.
When dining, share everything: your meals and desserts.
 
Make love on top of the washer/dryer (while it's running).

 
Attach a note on the TV remote: "Turn me on instead!"
 
Before getting out of bed, face your partner, give him/her a kiss and say: "I'm so thankful I have you in my life."
 
Sign your letters: "Forever and a day"
 
Place a heart-shaped sticker on your wristwatch to remind you to call.
 
On your lover's birthday send his/her mother a "Thank you" card.
 
Hide a pair of earrings in a box of chocolates.
 
Celebrate the anniversary of when you first met.
 
Shower together by candlelight.
 
Use the little strips of paper from Hershey's kisses as coupons redeemable for one kiss each
 
Tell your mate that you - love, adore, admire, cherish, desire, want, need, prize, esteem, idolize, revere, treasure him/her.
 
Hide a little gift for her so she'll find it during a walk together.
 
Leave a note: "I know we are soulmates because....."
 
"Imagination is more important than knowledge" - Albert Einstein
Give her your jacket when she is chilly.

 
Nothing is impossible to a willing heart, so let your imagination go wild...
Guys: Hold her dinner chair.
"One does not fall 'in' or 'out' of love. One grows in love" - Leo Buscaglia
Buy her an outfit while she's trying it on; let her wear it out of the store.
Slip a little love note into his wallet, in between the dollar bills.
 
Drip chocolate syrup on selected body parts before lovemaking.
Inspiration for long time lovers: "The older the violin, the sweeter the music" - Anonymous
Gently brush her cheeks with your lips.

  
Give him a lottery ticket. Attach a note: "You are one in a million"
While slow dancing, whisper something sweet to her.
Get the song "I Will Always Love You" by Whitney Houston
 
When attending a wedding, whisper: "If I had to do it over, I'd marry you again."
Hide a teeny, tiny gift somewhere on your body and make him find it.
Fill his toolbox with lingerie. Make him "work" to get his tools back.
Fold a love note in a fluffy bath towel.
 
Run your hands under warm water before going to bed.
Let a Shakespearean quote speak for you.
Gals: Never, never, never talk about your past boyfriends in front of him.

 
Sprinkle perfume on to light bulb. When light is turned on the scent of the perfume will fill the room.
Listen to a romantic audio tape, fix a cup of hot flavored tea, and light two candles.
Keep a journal of your romantic fantasies. Share it with your soul mate.

 
Take a picture of yourself in the most sexy outfit possible. Hide in a secret spot in your house and leave him or her clues on how to get there. Watch the sparks fly!
Play "hide-and-seek" in the rain. It's fun and VERY sensual!
 
Fill bathtub with warm water sprinkled with rose petals.
Invite your sweetie to an intimate dinner at your place. Make a pizza and with the pepperoni you can write something sweet, like "you are the one for me".
Surprise your lover with a kiss before they can finish a sentence.
Write your own love poems then record them on a tape and give them to your sweetheart.
Give your love an antique compass and say "You will never lose me". Your love will swear the needle always points to their heart!
While your love takes a shower, write the words "I love you" in the condensation of the bathroom mirror.
 
Leave a trail of "Hershey's chocolate kisses" from the front door to the bedroom, right up to the bed. On the bed leave a note that reads 'I kiss the ground you walk on.' Make sure you're not home when s/he gets in!
 
Play the game of monopoly with a few new rules. Change boardwalk into backrub, and Tennessee into take your shirt off. Every time you pass go, you get a kiss. etc.
 
Look straight into the eyes of your love and PAY ATTENTION to what they tell you! Tell your mate something about you that no one else knows.
 
Look into the eyes of your special someone often. "The eyes are the window to the soul". Weave love, sex, intimacy, passion and romance into the fabric of your daily lives.
 
Buy a set of matching silk pajamas, and take turns modeling them for each other.
Men: Talk more. Women: Touch more.

May 16, 2010

The 30 most romantic films ever

 

 Ahhh, romance movies. If you're looking for good date ideas or ideas for a romantic night, romantic movies and bubbly champagne drinks are a nice touch.

Romance stories come in lots of varieties, so couples can snuggle together and watch good chick flicks, romantic comedies or romantic thrillers.

Love movies offer cheap romantic ideas for couples counting pennies. Video rental stores often have 99 cent movie rentals if you rent more than one.

Pop up some popcorn, share your favorite  non alcoholic drink and enjoy each other's company.
Winter date ideas feature movies, too. If it's snowing/raining and blowing outside, scan the local tv paper listings to see when your sweetie's favorite romantic movie is playing.

Schedule an inside date with her to cuddle on the sofa and watch the movie. Give each other back rubs during the commercials.

If you're looking for Valentines Day creative ideas or romantic birthday gift ideas, a few dvd's of your soulmate's classic romantic movies wrapped in his or her favorite color bow - along with a homemade card - score big points.

Make time to relax with your sweetheart watching your favorite couples movies and make memories to cherish in the future.

 

The 30 most romantic films ever

1 Brief Encounter

1945
Parting has never been such sweet sorrow as in David Lean's adaptation of a Noël Coward play. Celia Johnson is Laura Jesson, the suburban housewife married to a crossword-fixated man; she falls in love with a dashing medic called Alec (Trevor Howard), and the rest is – repression. It's almost unbearable to watch Laura straining against her suburban self, trying to convince herself that she has a right to lunge for happiness. "This can't last. This misery can't last," she cries. Wonderful.
Heartstopping moment: As Alec leaves Laura in the train station, he puts his hand on her shoulder, expressing in that gesture fathomless depths of gratitude, tenderness, longing and regret.

2 The Graduate

1967
"Elaine! Elaine! Elaine!" It's the interrupted wedding scene to end them all. Dustin Hoffman's screams to bride Katharine Ross are racked with a desperation that borders on mania. And it's not just romantic - it's deep. The lost dream of the late 1960s, the battle of cynical middle-age against youthful idealism, the timeless appeal of a bright red Alfa Spider - all are bound up in this peerless finale to a lyrical and life-affirming film. "It's too late," smiles her mother, Mrs Robinson. "Not for me," says Elaine. Exit the lovers on an unforgettable bus-ride to ambiguity.

Simon and Garfunkel singing "Are you going to Scarborough Fair?"


3 Jules et Jim

1962
Three's not a crowd in François Truffaut's wonderful adaptation of Henri-Pierre Roché's novel.
Henri Serre and Oskar Werner are the two friends who are equally smitten by Jeanne Moreau, an exuberant free spirit whose vagrant character they find encapsulated by a phrase in a novel: "On a ship, a woman made love to a stranger in her mind." The camerawork on this New Wave classic is as ecstatic and giddying as falling in love itself. Truffaut moves between comedy and tragedy with awesome ease.
Moreau, baggy-jumpered and sporting a moustache, races across a bridge with Jules and Jim.

4 Casablanca

1942
"You must remember this…" could stand as a motto for this golden-age Hollywood triumph, an endlessly immersive tale of wartime intrigue and thwarted amour. Bogart and Bergman are beyond incomparable, and the happy-accident screenplay collaboration is the stuff of legend.
Simply the most memorable farewell in the history of farewells. "Inside of us, we both know you belong with Victor… If that plane leaves the ground and you're not with him, you'll regret it. Maybe not today. Maybe not tomorrow, but soon, and for the rest of your life…"

5 Gregory's Girl

1980
When the voluptuous Dorothy joins the school soccer team, tongues start wagging, hormones surge out of control, and love blossoms in the damp and sweaty changing rooms. But is she really Gregory's girl? Bill Forsyth's delightful comedy, set in an ultra-average new-town comprehensive and starring the gloriously gawky John Gordon Sinclair, captures the exquisite agony of teenage infatuation with unerring affection.
Gregory, bamboozled into a date with the far more suitable Susan (Clare Grogan), "explains" gravity as they dance horizontally in the park at sunset, warning her: "Don't stop, or you'll fall off."

6 It Happened One Night

1934
Famously causing a drop in vest sales when Clark Gable revealed a bare chest, this Frank Capra comedy is one of only three films to take the top four Oscars – for best film, direction and acting. It combines a magical innocence of tone with a risqué plot as married rich girl Ellie (Claudette Colbert), on the run from a disapproving father, hooks up with Gable's resourceful journalist Peter on the night bus to New York. As they cross the country, sleeping in motels and haystacks, contempt becomes love, and the walls of Jericho – the sheet on a rope that has divided their beds – come tumbling down.
When Ellie, tear-stained and wide-eyed, appears from behind the sheet to declare: "Take me with you, Peter. I can't let you go out of my life now. I cannot live without you."

7 The Philadelphia Story

1940
Never has class war seemed more elegant and, well, classy, than in George Cukor's version of Philip Barry's comedy. Everything about it is so darned stylish that it could end up as brittle as its heiress heroine (Katharine Hepburn at her most luminous). Its great heart springs from that fact she learns to love the right man (ex-husband Cary Grant) by kissing the wrong one, James Stewart's love-struck journalist.
"Put me in your pocket, Mike," Hepburn's husky just-kissed request to Stewart as he sweeps her into the darkness.

8 Solaris

2002
Steven Soderbergh's sombre meditation on love and loss has an almost unbearable intensity: although set largely in the vastness of space, it is one of the most emotionally claustrophobic films ever. George Clooney plays Kelvin, a shrink sent to a distant space station after the planet it orbits starts to play terrifying games with the minds of the crew. Kelvin discovers he is not immune when his dead wife materialises beside him in bed.
At the deeply ambiguous conclusion, Kelvin asks bewilderedly, "Am I alive or dead?", to which his wife replies: "We don't have to think like that any more."

9 Roman Holiday

1953
From the moment we see Audrey Hepburn toying with her shoes under her voluminous dress, we know she's bored with the regal lifestyle. Naturally, only one profession could provide someone dashing enough for her: journalism. And so it's into the arms of US hack abroad Gregory Peck that she falls, while William Wyler directs this sublime couple with infinite charm.
Peck pretends that his hand has been bitten off by the ancient stone face, without having warned Hepburn that he was going to do this. Her initial panic, and the way they hold and gaze at each other afterwards, radiate pure, unscripted affection.

10 Love Story

1970
Cancer and ice-hockey: not, on paper, a recipe for romance. But throw in Ali McGraw, a lush Oscar-winning score and some chunky early-1970s woollens and – hey, presto – it's the highest-grossing film of the year. "What can you say about a 25-year-old girl who died?" asks sportif rich boy Ryan O'Neil in the opening line. Plenty, of course, most of it schmaltzy, but irresistible. Meanwhile, poor-girl McGraw succumbs to terminal illness while remaining delicious and coining the phrase "Love means never having to say you're sorry." But it's the music that nails you.
The carefree snowball fight of the doomed lovers.

11 An Officer and a Gentleman

1982
He's an officer. He's a gentleman. And, let's not forget, he's a lovva. John Travolta turned down the role of the ne'er-do-well trainee fighter pilot redeemed by Debra Winger, and good thing too. He lacks the hardness that we have to see the character shedding, wouldn't have cut such a dash as Richard Gere in his white outfit, and would have been effortlessly outshone in the looks department by his smouldering belle.
Winger is in her dismal factory; Gere, in full dress uniform, strides in and sweeps her off her feet. The definitive romantic image.

12 Gone with the Wind

1939
With the American Civil War as an expansive backdrop, and enough famous set-pieces to win eight Oscars, this epic is still a simple love story at heart, though arguably it is more about the power of sex than the mysteries of love. Vivien Leigh's petulant Scarlett O'Hara is a terrible pain, but Clark Gable's Rhett Butler is besotted, witty and wise enough to make his kicking down of the bedroom door an act of passion rather than brutality.
Rhett to Scarlett as they kiss and she says she will faint: "I want you to faint. This is what you were meant for."

13 In the Mood for Love

2000
Like so many great romances, Wong Kar-Wai's modern Hong Kong masterpiece is about the impossibility of a romance. It overflows with sensuality and passion, but the man and woman at its heart (Tony Leung and Maggie Cheung) never consummate their love. They're both married, and are drawn together only when they discover that their partners are having an affair with each other. Soundtracked by the aching cries of cellos in the night, drenched in super-saturated tones, this is the ultimate in desire and frustration.
Tony Leung whispers his most secret thoughts into a hole in the ruined temple of Angkor Wat.

14 Sunrise

1927
Many silent classics tend to be admired from a reverential distance, but not FW Murnau's Sunrise: it's impossible not to respond to it like something that only came out yesterday. Led astray by a lascivious "woman from the city", George O'Brien plots to kill his unsuspecting wife (the luminous Janet Gaynor), only to see the light in a series of reconciliation scenes as tender as they are uplifting. Better still, it's on current release nationwide in a lovingly restored print.
O'Brien and Gaynor go to a photographer's studio and act like giggling newlyweds all over again.

15 Dirty Dancing

1987
A generation of teenage girls were obsessed with this Emile Ardolino film. It's the ultimate female adolescent romance: smart-but-plain daddy's girl (Jennifer Grey's "Baby") has sexual – and rhythmic – awakening with chiselled holiday resort dance teacher (Patrick Swayze's Johnny). It's 1963 and, away from the family activities, Baby is mesmerised by a below stairs world where the staff bump, grind and lose themselves in sensuous R&B rhythms. Baby saves Johnny from a lack of self-worth. He saves her from the foxtrot.
"Nobody puts Baby in the corner," says Johnny, and leads her on stage for the dance of her life.

16 An Affair to Remember

1957
This is the film that Meg Ryan keeps talking about in Sleepless in Seattle. Cary Grant is a carefree playboy who falls in love with Deborah Kerr, a nightclub singer engaged to a wealthy businessman, and vows to meet her six months later at the top of the Empire State Building. Shot in lush Cinemascope, it looks great and features some of the most romantic lines ever written. Sighs Kerr: "Winter must be cold for those with no warm memories." Grant was rarely this sad or soulful again.
Kerr tells Grant, "I was looking up. It was the nearest thing to heaven. You were there."

17 The Way We Were

1973
It's a case of opposites attract when impoverished communist student Katie (Barbra Streisand) falls for rich jock Hubbell (Robert Redford at his most gorgeous). He, however, hardly knows she exists until a chance meeting years later. They fall in love and for a brief, honeymoon period life is filled with long walks on the beach, before their different views drive them apart. All they're left with are "misty water-coloured memories of the way we were".
Hubbell turns up drunk to Katie's romantic meal and falls asleep. But he does so beautifully.

18 La Belle et la Bete

1946
The film may be based on the classic fairytale, but Cocteau transforms it into a heartstopping examination of what is meant by sexual and romantic love. Jean Marais as the Beast is a real animal – clawing at Belle's door at night and drinking the blood of his prey. Josette Day's delicate heroine is terrified and disgusted by this high-testosterone monster, but comes to love the Beast's gentle, self-sacrificing soul. Deeply Freudian, but oh so moving.
Belle offers the Beast some water in her hands and he laps it like a cat.

19 Laura

1944
Unusually for a romance, the heroine is dead when the hero falls in love with her. Laura (Gene Tierney) has been murdered and tough cop Mark McPherson (Dana Andrews) is interviewing two of the men who loved her. He becomes smitten by the sweetness they describe and also by the portrait above her fireplace. Then she comes back from the dead. Part-thriller, part-romance, with plenty of sharp humour thrown in, Otto Preminger's film is near-perfect.
It's late at night and McPherson has fallen asleep drunk in front of Laura's portrait. A key turns in the lock and in walks a woman. It is Laura. "You're alive!"

20 Punch-Drunk Love

2002
Teetering on the brink of terminal depression, Paul Thomas Anderson's beautiful pipe dream of a modern romantic comedy turns the genre on its head with a mixture of skewed invention and giddy sincerity. Trust the smartest talent in contemporary American cinema to find gainful employment for its most gormless clown - Adam Sandler - whose small-time entrepreneur Barry Egan is a vulnerable and touching creation; Emily Watson glows from within as his expectant sweetheart.
Sandler races through the corridors of Watson's apartment block, rings her doorbell, and they kiss as the music soars.

21 True Romance

1993
It took Quentin Tarantino five years to find backing and a director (Tony Scott) for his first, most personal, script. An update of Badlands, Tarantino admits it is also the romantic fantasy of a single 25-year-old "movie geek". Thus, Patricia Arquette's endearingly ditzy trailer-trash blonde (Alabama) shares a love of kung-fu movies and Elvis with Clarence (Christian Slater). As their cocaine deal-of-a-lifetime goes wrong, the film bursts into a symphony of violence, and we root for this "real cute couple" to make it out alive.
Alabama purrs: "I feel real goofy saying this, me being a call girl and all, but I think I love you."

22 Now, Voyager

1942
This film directed by the British-born Irving Rapper gets stranger and more compelling as the years go by. Bette Davis plays a dowdy spinstress who is transformed from ugly duckling into a swan after a nervous breakdown. On an ocean cruise she falls for unhappily married Paul Henreid and ends up looking after his troubled daughter. As for marriage, she tells him: "Don't let's ask for the moon. We have the stars." Romance doesn't always have fairytale endings, then, but Davis's transformation is gripping to behold.
When Henreid lights up two cigarettes, then hands one to Davis.

23 When Harry Met Sally

1989
"We could never be friends," announces Harry smugly. "Men and women can never be friends because the sex part always gets in the way." Sally – a fresh, fluffy, all-American ditz – disagrees; 11 years and several regrettable hair-dos later, they're still arguing the point. Nora Ephron's script, zinging with one-liners and verbal sparring, crystallises an imperishable core issue in the war between the sexes; Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal update Hepburn and Tracy in style.
The climactic new year's eve party where Sally wails: "Harry, you say things that make it impossible for me to hate you, and I hate you, Harry, I really hate you."

24 Titanic

1997
James Cameron's $200 million account of the world's worst shipping disaster is also a classic tale of doomed love across the social divide. On an ocean liner bound for the States, a bored young English aristocrat (Rose, played by a ravishing Kate Winslet) discovers her soulmate in Jack, a penniless Irish charmer (Leonardo DiCaprio). But it's not just the class system that's against them – a 500,000-ton iceberg strikes a hole in the ship, and their passionate affair is sunk.
"Promise me you'll survive," stammers the near-dead Jack as they float in the freezing North Atlantic. Rose clutches his hand: "I'll never let go, Jack, I'll never let go."

25 Lost in Translation

2003
Sofia Coppola's postmodern Brief Encounter is full of unspoken, low-key longing and tentative open spaces, proving that in romance, less is often more. It brings Bill Murray and Scarlett Johansson together by chance as guests in a Tokyo hotel. Cut adrift from their normal lives and partners, they shyly, slowly come to recognise each other as kindred spirits. Darting through neon streets, holding hands, singing karaoke – nothing happens, but everything happens. It's wonderful. If you haven't seen it yet, go tonight.
They're falling asleep after talking all night. He holds her foot.

26 Une Partie de Campagne

1936
In Renoir's miniature masterpiece (it's only 39 minutes long), Henriette, a fresh and lovely Parisienne, takes a day trip to the country one sunny summer's day with Mum, Dad, Gran and idiot husband-to-be Anatole. She is utterly intoxicated by the gorgeousness of nature and, separated from her family, falls into the arms of young Henri, a handsome, poetic-looking sort. After a brief moment of passion in the long grass, the clouds burst; she heads back to humdrum domesticity with Anatole.
Henriette's resistance to Henri's advances crumbles and her eyes fill with tears when she hears a nightingale warbling in the tree above them.

27 I Know where I'm Going

1945
This black-and-white gem from Powell and Pressburger is almost as much an ode to the Western Isles as it is a tale of romance. Joan Webster (Wendy Hillier) is all set to marry a wealthy man, but bad weather prevents her from getting to the wedding. While she's stranded, she meets Torquil MacNeil (Roger Livesey), a naval officer and the laird of Kiloran. She is sucked into the otherworldliness of the Scottish islands, complete with superstitions, curses, ceilidhs and whirlpools.
She's leaving to marry her rich man. "Will you do something for me before I go away?" she asks. "I want you to kiss me."

28 Breakfast at Tiffany's

1961
Purists maintain that the cinematic version of Truman Capote's novel is a bowdlerised travesty. Few, these days, read Breakfast at Tiffany's, but we keep watching the film. It transformed a slight, amoral tale into a poignant love story where two lost souls, Audrey Hepburn's high-class call girl Holly Golightly, and George Peppard's failed writer, find each other in high-chic bohemian New York. Forty years later, every girl still wants to be an Audrey-style Cinderella walking down Fifth Avenue in a Givenchy dress.
The kiss at the end in the rain with the cat.

29 Bonnie and Clyde

1967
The prototypical warped love story, and, for many, the first modern American movie, this constantly and effortlessly juggles tragedy and comedy, while a cloud of dread at the inevitable outcome hangs over the proceedings. For us not to dismiss them as repugnant killers, the central duo needed to be very beautiful and genuinely touching - and we could have asked for no more than Warren Beatty and Faye Dunaway.
Having just killed his first man, Clyde selflessly suggests to Bonnie that she leave him, adding: "You ain't gonna have a minute's peace!" Her trembling reply is: "You promise?"

30 Annie Hall

1977
Woody Allen's funniest, saddest, finest film, about the life and one true love of Manhattan stand-up Alvy Singer, is almost unbearably heartbroken, a lament for chances missed as well as a fond flashback to better times. Out of the great relationship of his life, Woody fashioned the great relationship of Alvy's and the most personal, mature, reflective film of his career. He couldn't have done it without Diane Keaton, whose Annie is simply unforgettable.

Romantic movies from the:

1930's - Best Romantic Films of the 1930s
 
1940's - Best Romantic Films of the 1940s
 
1950's - Best Romantic Films of the 1950s
 
1960's - Best Romantic Films of the 1969s
 
1970's - Best Romantic Films of the 1970s
 
1980's Best Romantic Films of the 1980s
 
1990's Best Romantic Films of the 1990s
 
2000's The 50 Best Romantic Films of the 2000s


Please send us your choice. We might add into the the list.We need the missing one.

Best,
Hassan Tanvir

May 04, 2010

46 Ideas on How to Propose Marriage


46 Ideas on How to Propose Marriage


1. Do it the old fashioned way. Get down on one knee with a rose clenched in your teeth and the ring in your hand.
2. Have a waiter bring you her favorite dessert with the ring inside of it. (Be careful that she doesn't swallow it).
3. Take her/him to the theatre and ask the stage manager if he will allow you to come up on stage and propose after the final curtain.
4. Show up at her/his office in the middle of the afternoon armed with a red rose, a bottle of champagne and a glass with the ring in it.
5. Write "Will you marry me (name)" in chalk on the street out side your house or apartment in big letters.
6. Call your local radio station and get them to pop the question for you over the air waves at a time that you know she/he will be listening. Then dedicate a song to her/him.
7. Gather all your friends and family for drinks either at a favorite restaurant or your home and pop the question in front of everyone.
8. Gather friends and family outside his/her home waving banners with the words will you marry me on them and you standing in front of them all on one knee holding the ring. (Make sure that they get the right house).
9. Send a singing telegram to her/his workplace. Then walk in just after the song is finished and pop the question.
10. Create a web page all about your life together. Photos, places that mean a lot to you both. Send him/her the web address and wait for his/her reply and when accepted you can then send the address to friends and family.
11. Wrap a large box and fill with smaller boxes all wrapped the last box that she will come to will be the smallest with the ring inside. Or alternatively wrap a large box and fill with those tiny foam pieces and let her look for the small box inside.
12. Cut the bottom out of a very large box then wrap it. Take it to her place of work and ask one of her colleague's to go get her telling her that there is a large parcel for her. Meanwhile you climb in from the bottom and when she unwraps it jump out with the ring in hand and ask her to make an honest man of you.
13. Take her/him away for the weekend and when you are on your last day pop the question.
14. Get up extra early and prepare her/him breakfast in bed. Cook his/her favorite meal with a red rose and a bottle of champagne and a kiss to wake him/her and then declare your love.
15. Scatter rose petals all over her bed and put the gift wrapped ring in the center. Tell her that you bought her a gift to show how much you love her. When she opens it tell her that you want to spend the rest of your life with her.
16. Cook your loved one a romantic meal and place a note around the napkin like it is a napkin holder asking her/him to marry you. Or slip the napkin (use fabric ones not paper!) through the ring, when she goes to put her napkin in her lap she will find the ring.
17. Give your her a foot massage and place the ring on her little toe.
18. Blindfold him/her and take them to the place where you first met each other. Take along a bottle of champagne and two glasses to celebrate after you propose.
19. Bake him/her a cake and write on top of it Will you marry me?
20. Take out a full page ad in a paper that you know your loved one reads regularly and be close by when he/she reads it.
21. Buy your loved one a watch and have it inscribed "marry me."
22. Pour her a glass of wine with the ring in the bottom of it and when she drinks the wine she will find the ring.
23. Go for a picnic together then pop the question.
24. Propose at Christmas by hanging the ring in it's box from on the tree as if it was an ornament. Tell her to find the new special ornament you just purchased for her.
25. If you're dining in a fancy restaurant, ask the waiter/waitress to write, "Will you marry me?" in chocolate sauce around the rim of his/her dessert plate.
26. Run her a bath with scented candles, rose petals and after she is in the tub, float a rubber duck with the ring tied around it's neck in front of her.
27. Serve her oysters in bed with the ring inside the shell.
28. Write a note asking your other to marry you, place it inside a bottle. Take her/him to the beach when he/she is in the water slip the bottle in and ask them to open it to see what it says.
29. Spell your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers on your ceiling. Climb on top of him/her and wait for the yes, yes, yes.
30. Leave a trail of notes for him/her to follow and when he/she reaches the end you will be standing there with a sign or you can say "Will you marry me?"
31. Scratch your proposal into the frost on his or her car's windshield.
32. Take your partner to the beach and write "Will you marry me?" in big letters in the sand.
33. Take him/her on a sail boat ride and pop the question.
34. Leave the ring on her pillow a long with a note and go take a shower.
35. Take her/him up in a hot air balloon with a bottle of champagne and announce that'll you'll jump if she/he doesn't marry you.
36. Take her/him to see his/her favorite band and ask one of the stage crew if they will pop the question for you.
37. Plan a treasure hunt. Set the clues in place and when he/she gets to the last clue you will be standing there with champagne and a proposal they can't refuse.
38. Hire a skywriter to spell your proposal on high.
39. Hire a plane to fly a banner with your "Marry me (insert name here)" message written on it.
40. Sneak in to her home and fill it to the rafters with balloons and or flowers and in the middle sit a teddy bear holding the ring and a note asking her to marry you.
41. Propose in French the language of love.
42. Play Hangman and have the phrase be "Marry Me."
43. Throw her/him a surprise birthday party inviting friends and family and then propose.
44. Write her/him a story about your relationship. Almost like a diary with dates if possible. Then end it with the date you are going to give it to him/her telling how you proposed and that the story can't be ended until you have the answer.
45. If it's snowing write "Will you marry me?" in it.
46. Take him to see his favorite sports team playing and get the commentator to ask him to marry you.

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LAETITIA, WILL YOU MARRY ME?

We can all think of typical ways of asking our lovely girlfriends to marry us. The man gets down on one knee and gets out a box with an engagement ring (probably worth a month's salary) before asking her to spend the rest of her life by his side.

This traditional way of proposing still works, and can be categorized as the conventional way of asking a woman to marry you. But these days, women want to be mesmerized with emotion, romanticism and originality. And not necessarily in that order either.

The following are a mix of both innovative and more traditional ways to pop the question.

1. To the extreme
If your woman is the sporty type, you can propose to her from the heights of a mountain after a day of rock climbing. Other possibilities would be during a parachute jump or a scuba-diving session in South America, or anywhere else for that matter.

2. Make a video
Making a personal video of yourself proposing to her can have a great effect, especially if you are watching it with her. She will likely jump from joy and want to skip straight to the honeymoon...

3. In mid-air
A more public display of affection is to have the captain of an airplane you are on recite your marriageproposal to your woman over the intercom. You can just picture it: "We are now flying over the Grand Canyon and will be arriving at our destination in approximately 45 minutes. And, by the way, Joanna, Michael would like to know if you would do him the honor of marrying him."

Of course, after this, all you should hope for is a "yes" and a safe landing.

4. My way or the highway
Just imagine driving home from work and seeing a billboard that says "Lucy, will you marry me?" This will have an amplified effect, and the rest of the commuters who see it will hope it works out for you.

They will also hope that she doesn't slam the brakes in excitement.

5. Marriage on the big screen
Let's say you agreed to go see the latest Julia Roberts movie, and right before the movie is about to start, as part of the previews, one frame action simply displays the words: "Maria, will you be my wife?"

Although this is not likely to win you an Oscar nomination, it will certainly go down in the annals of history for best dramatic sequence.
6. Raindrops falling on my head
The Canadian Niagara Falls are an ever popular destination for honeymooners, but few people actually think of it as a great place to ask for your girlfriend's everlasting love.

7. Vegas-Style
Ever thought of going to Sin City to prove your love to each other? This is still one of the most popular locations for couples to get married. But who says you can't get engaged over a game of roulette at the Caesar's Palace?

8. Valentine's Day surprise
Instead of offering a traditional card, flowers and chocolates, why not offer her the greatest sign of love by asking her to marry you? Your girlfriend will surely remember this holiday for the rest of her life.

The only bad part is that it will be hard to surpass this gift every following year.

9. Indecent proposal
The ultimate way to ask your woman to marry you would be during an intense lovemaking session. Popping the question while bringing her to ecstasy is one of the ultimate thrills for a woman.

Imagine your woman climaxing physically and emotionally. She is not likely to forget that day anytime soon.

10. The love police
Although this one requires quite a bit of work and coordination, getting your girlfriend pulled over by a real cop to give her a "love ticket" is quite unexpected and very original.

Just make sure any outstanding parking tickets are taken care of beforehand.

11. Happy birthday to us
Proposing to her on her birthday is another great way to go about it. And another positive aspect of it, she probably won't notice that you forgot to get her a birthday present.

12. You've got love mail
The Internet era is upon us, driving us to adapt to the technology. So why not send her a love note by email along with the big question?

13. Radio dedication
If you know she listens to the radio at a certain time everyday, making a dedication will work charms with her. Except that this one will have the disc jockey asking your girlfriend to marry you. A good follow-up is to call her while the question is being asked.

If you want to be more personal, you can also ask your girl to marry you live on the air.

14. Take me out to the ball game
Bringing your girlfriend to a Yankees game might not be the most fulfilling experience for her. But just imagine her expression if during the Lucky 7th inning intermission, the stadium big screen is focused on you on one knee asking her to marry you.

This is a great way to have 20,000 people witness your display of love, which is a nice gesture in itself.

This list is by no means exhaustive; people are coming up with new and innovative ways to propose every day. Whichever way you choose, remember, the only thing you have to worry about afterwards is whether or not she'll say "yes".

"Will you marry me?" Those four little words may well be the most important question you'll ever ask. The rest of your life flows from the answer to that question. It joins two families, begins a new one, and determines everything-what you'll eat for dinner; where you'll spend your holidays; what your children will be like.
In other words, this question and the way it is asked is a BIG DEAL-too big to treat casually. You don't want to just pull out the ring box while you're watching TV and say, "Oh, yeah, I thought you might like to, uh, y'know...would you?" Make it a moment you'll both remember forever!
SHE will remember it; every tiny detail of it-the weather, what she was wearing, what you were wearing, the time, the place, everything. She'll remember whom she told first and what they said, how her parents reacted, and how your parents reacted-everything! So take the time and make the effort to plan it so the details come out right. Why spend a lot of time and money getting the perfect diamond only to have the Big Moment turn out to be a flop? The diamond is just one part of the Perfect Proposal. It takes thought, planning, loving attention to detail, and occasionally teamwork to create the kind of fireworks that will leave a lasting glow on your lives together.  One great source for romantic proposal ideas is the wildly popular The RoMANtic's Guide to Popping the Question.  This guide can help any guy come up with the perfect proposal for his true love.
If you're wondering how to propose to your girlfriend or boyfriend, this step-by-step guide should help you come up with some strong wedding proposal ideas. Here is how to propose marriage to your special someone.
Planning the Perfect Proposal: A Worksheet
  1. Attire. Will you wear a tux? Maybe a gorilla suit to say that you're not monkeying around? Make a statement with your wardrobe.
  2. Budget. A romantic proposal doesn't have to mean expensive. Romantic means different things for different people. But, know your budget and what kind of romantic proposal your budget can get you. Do you rent a plane or a limo? Take her to the most romantic restaurant? Feed her champagne and caviar? Determine what you can afford to spend on a once-in-a-lifetime occasion.
  3. Location. Very important! The observation deck of the tallest building in town? A hilltop under the stars? On the deck of a sailboat? On a moonlit beach? Don't forget, romantic proposals can be a "combo" - first a restaurant, then the beach, for example.
  4. Day & Time. Pick a day that's special to you, such as the anniversary of your first date. Or, an evening, when a full moon rises over the lake.how to propose
  5. Food. Taking her to the first restaurant you went to together can be fun. Cooking her a meal is a sure winner!
  6. Flowers. Absolutely! Whether it's great bouquets of flowers or a single red rose, flowers are a must for romantic moments--especially marriage proposals.
  7. Candy. Find out what her favorite is, and present it as a treasure, wrapped in gold paper and tied with a bow, even if it's a Snickers bar.
  8. Accessories. Take along a cell phone so she can call her mother or her sister. She'll be bursting to tell everyone! If you can, set up a video camera to record the moment.

Five Proposal Styles 

There are many different ways to propose marriage. Over the years, I've come across five basic styles of proposals. Which one of these styles best describes your situation?
  1. The Total Surprise. She doesn't know it's coming - not a clue, not a hint. You've never even discussed it. This is gutsy! It reminds me of the school dances of my youth, where all the girls were on one side of the gym and all the boys stood on the other. You'd finally get up the nerve to make that long walk across the floor to ask a girl to dance. If she said no (and they often did), the walk back across the floor felt like an eternity.
    I figure fewer than ten percent of all proposals are in this category. It's like doing a high-wire act without a net. Most guys drop hints first, or get hints from her that indicates which way the wind is blowing. But there are the big risk-takers, the guys who live on the edge, who just go out and buy the ring and make the dinner reservations and GO FOR IT! Hurrah for them, but I have to tell you I don't recommend popping the question "cold."
  2. She Knows. You've talked about getting married, you know you both want to get married and spend your lives together, you've talked about having kids, you've pledged your undying love. The only thing she doesn't know is when it's coming.
    Men, the time between when she knows you'll give her a ring and the moment when you actually give it to her can be one of the greatest times of your life! Have some fun! Research unique and special marriage proposal ideas that will sweep her off her feet. Keep her guessing, plan the moment well, and when she least expects it, spring your wonderful surprise.
  3. Let's Elope! "Will you marry me? Right now? Tonight?"
    Wow! This one makes no sense to me unless:
    • The Early Pregnancy Test came up positive.
    • America's Most Wanted is profiling you tonight
    • It's her fifth marriage, your seventh.
    • You don't want to give her a chance to change her mind.
  4. It's Now or Never. Way to go-you've waited so long she's resorting to threats: "We're getting married or I'll find someone who'll appreciate me!" Fish or cut bait, guy. If you love her, get off the fence and show her you can't live without her. If it's come to the threatening stage, you have to be extra, extra romantic to make up for her long wait. Use my proposal planning worksheet and make it a good one!
  5. Ringless. You and your True Love are in each other's arms, caught up in a rising tide of passion. The dialogue goes like this:
    "Honey, I love you!"
    "I love you, too, sweetheart."
    (Kiss kiss smooch kiss)
    "I can't live without you!"
    "Oh, baby, you're the only one I'll ever love!"
    (Smooch kiss smooch kiss)
    "I want all our days to be like this."
    "Oh, sweetie, I do too!"
    "Will you marry me?"
    "Yes! Oh, yes, yes, yes!"
    But does Romeo have a ring in his pocket? Nooooooo. So where do we go from here? Don't think this lets you out of getting her a ring! Get that thought out of your head right now!
    A lot of Ringless proposals lead to a couple shopping together for the ring. Or, you could revert to the "She Knows" proposal and keep her guessing. Either way, the ringless proposal shouldn't be ringless for long.

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Magic words for a happy life


Happy Married Life

In your married life there comes a stage when couples hardly feel romantic and convey their inner feelings to one another. They start taking one another for granted and whatever they say or do they think that the idea behind it is implied and need not be conveyed in words to make out that they love one another. By this I mean that couples don't say words like 'I Love You' and 'I am Sorry' anymore and thus in a way the excitement in the relationship dies out with frustration creeping in. No matter how strong your relationship is it is very important to keep the marriage alive and exciting, that you have to feel more caring and loving towards your partner and express yourself through words. It's a fact that at the beginning of our relationships, we send cards describing our love and send flowers when we are sorry. Over time, not only do we forget to give our partners small gifts of affection, but sometimes, we forget to say how we feel. There are a few magic words that we must try to say to our loved ones every day or whenever appropriate. 

I Love You
Saying these words will not only make you feel good but will give your partner a sense of security and happiness
. Say these words before leaving for work and when you come home. Say, "I love you" before hanging up the phone or after a particularly inspiring conversation. Every marriage needs a daily dose of these three important words. Even if you are angry with your partner but saying these magic words will make you forget everything and make both of you happy. 
You are beautiful/cute 
You are beautiful/cute Or
weest, handsome, sexy - whichever words are appropriate. When we first start dating, we compliment our partner daily but after marriage we think that it is not required. But you are very much mistaken. It is always good to tell your partner how beautiful/handsome you think they are and how lucky you are that they are in your life. Women in particular need to be reminded, especially during pregnancy, after giving birth and on birthdays! Men also need to be told they are attractive, though they may not admit it! A compliment a day improves our intimate lives in ways we cannot even imagine.
I am sorry 
Never feel ashamed or egoistic to say these words for just these three words can make a world of difference. But when you say it, mean it. Don't say it if you just want to make the other person keep quite. And avoid the word "but"! This can kill our apology. To our lover's ears, "I'm sorry but…" translates to "I'm not really sorry, and I am just saying I'm sorry to allow myself to give an excuse." 
I need you 
You need to tell your partner how important he/she is for you. We need to let our spouse know that we not only appreciate them, but we need them to be with us in our life and life without them is incomplete. Make it more romantic by sending them an e-mail describing how impossible it is to live without them or write them a note and slip it into their briefcase, lunch box or purse. Just like women need to hear they are still attractive, men particularly need to know their wives depend on them..

Thank You
Make it a point to thank your spouse for every nice thing that he does. Why do we thank the cashier at the super-market or the librarian or the liftman or our friends and never thank our partner. Thank your spouse for making dinner, washing dishes, helping the kids with studies and preparing the kids for school in the morning. Thank your partner for bringing home a paycheck, buying your favourite desert and coming home early. Be romantic and send your spouse an e-card or put a sticky note on the bathroom mirror thanking him for everything and for coming into your life.

By Hassan Tanvir