Showing posts with label First Date Ideas and Tips. Show all posts
Showing posts with label First Date Ideas and Tips. Show all posts

October 10, 2008

Dating: Make it memorable


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Just to be sure it's memorable -
Record your date

Especially if it's a walk in the park or your date's first time bowling.
For example: take a one-time use camera and use it up - then plan to get together next week to look at the photos.

Leave the person you're dating with a memento or special reminder of your unique date (they'll think of you every time they see it) or email photos later...

Art-fest
Get together huge sheets of paper and pens, or charcoal, or crayons or watercolors.
Take your date to an art museum or art gallery or art festival.
After, return home (or go to a park with a picnic table or other location) and create your own artwork.

Lickey Sticky Date
Go for a simple walk in the outdoors or along the beach. Build a fire and roast and share sticky, gooey, messy, s'mores.
Lick your fingers or whatever else it takes to get cleaned up...

Floras Notta Bora
A botanical garden, arboretum or a community garden can be a great place to visit, especially in the spring. Take a camera, snap pictures of each other frolicking through the foliage.

The next day - a Beautiful Bouquet

Drama Whamma
Try out local, small theaters, not just movies every time. Sometimes the plays are excellent and some are just plain entertaining.

Whip Up a Banana Split
Chocolate syrup, bananas, strawberry syrup, ice cream - build a banana split and apply whipping cream as appropriate?

The Big Laugh
Find your local comedy club and laugh yourselves silly.



Factory Functions
Factories and manufacturers offer interesting factory tours.
Type into your search engine: "Factory tour" "Your town name" and find your local tours.

Back to Nature
Drive to the country, or a park and hunt for 4-leaf clover?

The next day send a Field of Daisies

Historical Histrionics
Check out your local museums - there are history museums or nature museums or aeronautical or sports museums tucked away in an area near you.
For a History museum date
You can pick one era upon which to concentrate while you're at the museum. Then find a video or movie set in the same time-frame to watch after your museum tour.
Civil War - "Gone with the Wind"
First World War - "For Whom the Bell Tolls"

Sail Away
Take sailing lessons together.

Groovie Movie
Can't decide - tape a newspaper on a wall (or somewhere that you don't mind holes in the wall - like the inside of a garage door).
Open the newspaper to the movie/entertainment page and ask your date to throw one or more darts to select the movie? Bingo. Or limit the number of choices by taping up a limited number of movies and toss away.

The Fat Lady Sings
Try an opera - sit in the nosebleed section if need be (for the economy-minded) and take binoculars? (If you don't think this is hot, watch the movie "Moon Struck.")

Jazz It Up
Find local jazz - check out coffee houses or jazz festivals.

History Buff
Check out local historical sites Often there are walking tours of historical areas in your town?often self-guided.

Game-Playing
Hit the arcade get an ice cream cone, then go bowling?

Artiste Unleashed
Go to an Art Museum - afterward use ideas from the art-fest date - OR buy clay or other materials for creating your own sculptures - or paper mache or paper, fabric, photos for collage.

Radical Reels
As an alternative to regular movies - animation festivals, documentary presentations, foreign and limited-run films can be a blast. Do a little research and check your newspaper's entertainment section. Even museums sometimes run specialty films.

Extra points for Guys
Guys:
Give her flowers (and bring a special one for her mother) ++++
OR send her a bouquet that reminds her of your date...

first date ideas-bronze,silver and gold


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bronze first date ideas

1- The beach
If you're the type who likes to see what she's all about right away, then take her to the beach. This is the perfect way to enjoy the sun, show off your new swimsuit and see what she looks like in a bikini. And if all else fails, there is still enough eye candy to keep you busy.

2- Billiards
If you feel like you're the best thing to happen to billiards since the cue-stick after seeing Tom Cruise in The Color Of Money, why not invite her to play some pool with you? This is an interesting setup to secure a second date.

You can raise the stakes by saying, "Whoever loses the game must cook supper for the other." And just like that, you've got yourself a second round of love.

3- Mini golf
If you can't tell the difference between a wedge and an iron, maybe miniature golf is the way to go. A cheap and fairly easy "sport," it allows for some physical contact when you have to give her a crash course on how to hold the putter.

4- Concert
Although first dates should emphasize conversation in order to get to know each other, some loud music and screaming people might be an alternative. Let's say your favorite band comes to town for one night only, which is incidentally the same night you are supposed to go on your first date with the girl, then take her to the show and kill two birds with one stone.

5- Amusement park
Even if amusement parks are generally aimed at children, who says that grown adults can't engage in some childish fun? Take her for a spin on the Ferris wheel or win her a big ol' teddy bear, and she won't have a chance to get bored.

First date ideas get more elaborate with our silver and gold packages...

silver first date ideas

6- Picnic
Good first date ideas need not involve a second mortgage on your home. It can simply be a quiet get together that allows for stimulating conversation, such as a picnic, which is also a good venue for you to show off your sandwich-making skills and your sangria expertise.

7- Casino
Just imagine going to the casino with your woman and having her blow on your dice. It's a nice feeling to double-down at Black Jack and come out of there with a pocket full of cash. Beware: easy come, easy go. And we're not only talking about the money.

8- Go-karting
Why not test her driving skills? F1 karting is an exciting and fairly cheap way to test her road abilities and take her for a ride. You can pretend that you're Michael Schumacher and that the F1 babes are cheering you on!

9- Golf
Golf may be one of the most relaxing sports you could engage in with your date. You can show off your Tiger Woods-like expertise golf tips.

Remember that non-sweaty activities are the way to go because your woman won't want to feel sticky and gooey -- this might put a damper when you're going for par, if you know what we mean.

10- Psychic
Women love to know about the future, their karma and all that mumbo jumbo. Get her palm read and have her find out if somebody close to her is going to win the lottery or if a new love is coming into her life. If that's the case, then it will save you plenty of headaches, not to mention dollar bills, as to whether or not she actually likes you.

gold first date ideas

11- Limo ride
If you want to impress your date with a great night on the town, literally, then why not take her along for a ride? Just don't go overboard and try to appear like a high roller; if you do, you might find your date jumping out the sunroof.

12- Roof terrace
Bringing your date to the highest point in the city can be exhilarating for both of you. Some hotels, restaurants or buildings have roof-top terraces for people to enjoy -- especially at night.

13- Catered meal
Sometimes a simple house date with some gourmet-catered food and drinks is the way to go. Impress your woman with fine cuisine prepared by a chef. It might cost some extra money, but at least there's a chance that you won't have to drive her home!

14- Massage
Although this requires some planning, escaping the busy urban life and going to an out-of-town resort might be the best thing. Imagine getting a Swedish massage, enjoying the sauna, jumping in the Jacuzzi, all while looking over the beautiful scenery.

This date is a surefire success, but beware because a date like this one will be difficult to top.

15- Balloon ride
There is nothing like looking at people from a bird's-eye view, floating above the city with her hanging on to you because she is afraid of heights.


first impressions
Although the aforementioned first date ideas are simply a result of extensive research in the dating field, there are many more possibilities that we haven't mentioned.