October 05, 2008

“3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted”

“3 Tips For Keeping A Man Attracted”

Ever wonder why men can act so “hot and cold” and lose interest so quickly?

You meet a great guy and share an amazing “connection”… but then he suddenly stops calling and making plans.

Why is this so common? Even with guys who seem great at first?

The truth is that even if you and a man are getting close… he won’t be honest tell you when he’s not FEELING ATTRACTED to you anymore. But the good news is that it’s easy to have a man start “feeling it” for you again- when you know what to do.

So let’s start with understanding what’s going on INSIDE HIS MIND.

If you can learn what a man is FEELING, and then learn to create feelings of ATTRACTION inside him, EVERYTHING in your relationship will become easier.

In fact, if you do this right, your man will be begging YOU for more.

Here’s where to start creating this kind of intense ATTRACTION with a man:

Tip #1: A Man Can See You As Needy, Even When You’re Not

Did you know that a woman doesn’t actually have to be “needy” for a man to get that icky feeling inside when he’s around her? The common and subtle ways you share your feelings and lend emotional support that bring you and your “friends” closer, can actually make a man feel anxious and “smothered” by you. “Why didn’t you call yesterday?” can be the very definition of “needy” to a man.

Tip #2: Avoid The Predictable, Boring Behaviors Of Other Women

Men love being around a woman who has more to talk about than the “everyday” stuff that other women do. When you meet a man, asking him what he does, and talking about your job is BORING. It’s what every other woman does. Men will love being around you if you communicate a love and enjoyment of life... and you bring energy that’s more interesting than what every other woman shows up with.

Tip #3: Creating A Level Of “Unpredictability” With Him Never Fails

If a man can’t guess what you’ll do or say next, he’ll be thinking and wondering about you. Learn to create a level of UNPREDICTABILITY, and it will work magic. Use humor and teasing when possible. Men love it… as this is one of their primary languages for bonding and connection.

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